Why lots of young women prefer older men for dating or marriage?
If we take a close look at celebrity couples today, we will see that many of the partners have significant age gap between them. Of course, in most cases we are talking about older men that have younger partners. In the past, such cases were very rare and almost impossible because the beliefs that the general public had influenced people and their behavior. Now when people are free from prejudice these situations are more common. However, there is still a large number of people who don’t agree with younger women seeking older men, older women seeing younger men or women and men who find married people more attractive. As a matter of fact, they are often called cougars, gold diggers or some other bad name. What is interesting is that men are usually spared from these qualifications. They are called “players”, “studs”, “successful men” etc. While it is true that dating a married men should not be your first option, there is nothing wrong with younger women seeking older men for dating or marriage. The age gap should never be a reason to cross some potential candidate from your list and we will now show you why.
First and foremost, older men are usually more responsible and mature. They have seen many things in their lives and they may have been married before, so they know how to behave and what went wrong in the past.
Furthermore, the majority of older men have well-established careers and you don’t have to worry about their future plans. What you see is what you get. They don’t have some unrealized dreams and they won’t make some unexpected moves. In fact, many of them have their own businesses which mean that they don’t have problems with their finances. You don’t have to be a gold digger to think about this. It is quite normal to look for a partner that can provide security.
Older men are usually more caring and they should more compassion in important moments. Many young women think that their older partners are some sort of role models who can trigger the necessary changes in their more or less chaotic lives. In addition, older men are usually more disciplines and dependable unlike most young men.
While we are talking about younger men, we must say that it is very likely that they will want to make experiments, perform flirting and even cheat on their partners. This is not the case with older men. They are more experienced even in bed and they won’t do something that can hurt their partner and ruin their relationship.
Older men don’t have such strong sexual appetite like young men and this is a positive thing for many women. On the other hand, older men can definitely satisfy their partner whenever she wants to enjoy an intimate intercourse.
Finally, if they already have children they may not want children with their new partner and many women who are building a career think that this is good.
There are plenty of reasons for younger women looking for older men and the above are just the top reasons. We have to admit that age gap dating is becoming more and more popular in today’s society.